following are letters and excerpts from emails received by the
Snyder Foundation acknowledging counseling or the gift of
Chuck and Barb: What a delightful surprise! I happily
opened the "care package" that you so graciously sent...
and am astonished that you would so bless me and my ministry!
I am so touched that you would take the time to prepare the package
and send a personal note. Your humor shines through, of
course, which makes me chuckle and appreciate you all the more!
often recommend Incompatibility: Grounds for a Great Marriage
so to have an extra copy for my office bookshelf is a bonus. I
have not read The Way to a Woman's Heart but it looks
makes my heart sing when I think of the two of you -- a clear
demonstration of the movements of God's grace, done with style!
A heartfelt "thank you" for the generous and thoughtful
gift which will be enjoyed for years, by many people.
I just wanted to thank you again for all the awesome
books you and your wife sent. I started reading A Woman's Guide
To Understanding A Man about 2 days ago and can hardly put it
down! It is hystericalllll Not to mention totally true! LOL
Beyond all the laughing I am doing (out loud mind you) while I read
this....it is FULL of wonderful insight!!! THANK YOU SOOOOOOO
MUCHIII! I can't wait to pass this book around to all my friends!
and get this...my husband who HATES to read is actually reading your
books too! I can't tell you all the books I have bought (Everything
from Gary Smalley to that "men are from mars" guy) and he
has NEVER had any interest in reading them! If they aren't on tape
he isn't going to have anything to do with them (Mind you, when I
bought them on tape all they did was collect dust!) So, for me
to see him actually picking up a book and reading it is a HUGE
more thing l wanted to share with you. I have been praying
faithfully for about 2 months now that my husband would show an
interest in being a spiritual leader in our family. Everyday I have
done my bible studies...shared verses with him and never said
anything. Then, all of a sudden he decided he was going to start
having daily devotions tool! What an answer to prayer! He actually
came to me and told me he was jealous of how close I was growing to
the Lord and wanted to have that relationship with God too! Wow!
Shock! That would have NEVER happened before! So, now I am seeing
all the blessing that came of his betrayal and confession. God has
used all of that to make amazing changes in each of our lives and
our marriages PRAISE GOD!!!!
you again for listening before and guiding me along as I began to
you, Chuck, for the wisdom and informative reply you sent. This is
truly wonderful and now explains everything in a much brighter
light. Also I was always resenting my husband for his reluctance in
renewing our marriage vows. But now I can ask God to forgive me for
my part in the divorce and for him, too.
have made more sense in your reply, than all of the people I have
shared with. Which us probably why I was confused. And no, you
have not offended me.
you again. May God richly bless you and yours.
sister in Christ,
Snyder - thank you so much for the response. I've shared it with
several lady friends and they were truly blessed by your response
just as much as I was. This answers so many questions for me in just
your one statement. I do have a clearer understanding now and do
acknowledge that even though we are all created as humans by our
Father God, we are different and therefore may not see all
situations the same as our brothers. Thanks again and I'm sure I'll
be writing to again with other questions.
Chuck, just wanted to say thanks for the books. I received
them yesterday and my wife is over the moon that I've got signed
books by a famous author.
to keep you up to date with my situation, my wife and I are now back
together and our relationship is better than is has ever been, both
with each other and God. I am trying really hard to love and
serve my wife and your book (The Way to a Woman's Heart) has really
helped me. So thanks for your prayers and your wisdom.
sent me another copy of the above book so I am going to give my
unsigned book to a good friend of mine who is having marriage
trouble at the moment. I have also signed up to do my Diploma
in Professional Counseling as I believe God is calling me into that
area and I hope one day I can be used even just a fraction of how
God has used you.
has used your book to change my life and I thank you and I thank
God! God Bless!
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